Where Real-Life Love & Romance Meet & Sizzle!
August 2007 "Love Yourself; then Love Your Partner as You Love Yourself."
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Welcome... More Romance and Real Love into Your Life!
This is the place you need to be if you want your real love relationship to be as interesting, exciting, romantic and hot as a romance novel.
We believe the keys to an awesome love relationship begins with knowing who you are and what you want, treating others the way they need and want to be treated, and learning to bring out the best in your partner, while expecting no less in return.
Are You Attracting the Love and Romance You Want?
Our mission at Romance and Real Love is to show you how you can bring more true, genuine romance and love into your life. The state of relationships today bears out the fact that many of us need to "learn what we don't know and change what we don't like™," concerning our love lives and marriage relationships. We want you to improve your relationships, end marital discord, and enjoy great lovemaking. We are here for that very purpose. Just in case no one has said it to you today - "We Love You!" Take a look at the state of relationships in America, and you will see why everyone could use a lot more Romance and Real Love.
What is Love Anyway?
How do you define love? If you're stuck thinking about it, using any part of the word "feel," or used more than one sentence, you may not have a clear idea of what true, life-changing love really is. In its purest form, "love is giving unselfishly of oneself for the benefit of another, without condition." You won't find that definition in the dictionary, but that's it in a nutshell. That's the kind of love a husband and wife, or a couple heading towards a marriage relationship should have. Couples must be on the same page in their expectations of love and marriage. Hopefully you don't love things more than people. The general love we all should have for our fellow man (we are more alike than different - stuck on the same planet, each needing food, water, air and yes, love) isn't even close to the love we have for our children. Committed love is the foundation for making love last, otherwise it's just a temporary fling, i.e. dating and sex. True love is the stuff that makes for great and satisfying relationships.
How to Get to a Better Love Life
Love is a choice, an action, not just a feeling, which is why so many people have such trouble with it- they focus on how they feel at the time. How many times have you been fed up with your honey and just didn't feel all warm and fuzzy about him, but you know that you still love him, and would do anything for him. Love is empowering, confident, and fearless. Love is a conscious choice regardless of the circumstances of the moment. That is why you can even choose to love someone who doesn't return it. You can even love your enemy! The possibilities are limitless when you understand how to truly love another human being. We aren't just hoping to help you in getting along better, we are dedicated to pointing you to real, genuine, authentic, powerful love and romance solutions, with fun and excitement built in! Study the basics of great love relationships and compare your thoughts and actions in your love relationship(s) with what successful, happy, powerful relationships have. More...
What Should You do Here at Romance & Real Love?
- The Love 101 Course - K.I.S.S. is a must for everyone, whether coupled or flying solo. New and challenging love lessons each month.
- Write "Dear Alma" for the love afflicted, to help you with a personal dilemma, or see what others are dealing with in their single love lives or marriage relationships.
- Encourage your man to check out the pertinent but often amusing "For Men" section. "For Men" answers questions for men concerning women that they never knew to ask or never knew where to go.
- Check out "About Men" ,for women who really want to learn how to better understand those wonderful creatures that may drive you batty but you don't want to live without!
- Be a whole person from the inside out with Your Spirit .
- Single and Dating? Check out ways to enjoy it more or not be! Plus things you need to know before you get married.
- We scour the web for you to bring the best sites that will help you better your Relationships, and the single largest selling book category - Romance Fiction (you could learn a lot in one good read)!
- From time to time we will have surveys and contests - we want to know what you think, how you feel, and always meet your needs.
- Have some fun and Shop, while helping others too! We pick out the most pertinent and helpful books, and the "funnest" products to bring out your sexy, wild, or playful side, or enhance or improve your love life. We donate a portion of every dollar we make to one of the charities we love (click here for list) when you purchase via the links from our web site.